I’ve always dreamed that after graduation I’d wake up in some big city in my spacious condo, head off to my cushy job at a large magazine, dressed in clothes from my expansive and packed closet and edit others’ work while occasionally writing my own articles, the biggest exclusives, of course.
In short I wanted to conquer the world, straight out of Hampton with a freshly printed degree in my hand.
But the world doesn’t work that way. It can’t. Because if it did work that way, no one would truly work hard anymore. After all, earning the editorial spot in a magazine with a circulation of over a million takes work. Even the spacious condo and expensive clothes take work. Anything worth truly possessing does.
Few can say that they’ve earned the salary, endless amenities and boundless opportunities life has afforded them without true hard work. And if they have, even fewer cherish it. It’s because it’s been handed to them, passed down from generation to generation in a way no more challenging than a great-grandmother’s recipe for peach cobbler. It’s always been there. And to them it always will.
Yet for the many who’ve had to pound the pavement to achieve that entry-level job with menial pay or even worse, attain an internship that pays no wage but provides infinite wisdom, the end result is more than rewarding. In fact, it’s the sweetest thing worth having because it was accomplished by one’s own will, determination, plain old blood, sweat and tears.
Too many times, we’ve taken today’s opportunities and misconstrued their purpose. Their definition has remained the same but our perception of them has changed over time. Yes, becoming rich has become easier, but possessing personal wealth has not. Collecting money isn’t everything if the personal wealth, financially and most importantly, personally and spiritually, is not there.
Becoming a person who has an amazing work ethic, possesses an extreme amount of dedication to success and a drive that rivals even the wealthiest of businessman is what’s important. Success isn’t measured in dollars and cents, doesn’t come with a price attached to a home and isn’t available with a new pair of designer shoes, it’s measured in the constant pursuit of it. True triumph doesn’t come without trial and no success is true without stress.
Success, or at least my view of it, must always be strived for and yearned after. Only then, after reflecting over a lifetime and assessing one’s determination to continue pursuing your personal best can one deem themselves successful. It doesn’t come overnight and it isn’t easy, nothing truly valuable in life is.